The Law of Attraction says that our thoughts can affect our future experiences. At the same time we constantly hear about the importance of enjoying the moment. It reminds me of when I travel to a new place. I am told to see this and don’t miss that but at the same time make sure I relax and don’t plan. But don’t miss this! Feels like a lot of pressure.
One way to accomplish both is to be open and gentle with yourself. Yes, live in the moment but don’t pressure yourself too much about it. Plan for the future, but don’t think about the logistics. Picture and feel how wonderful it will be once you are there. If you are enjoying the process you won’t miss out on being in the moment.
Keep in mind that we are dynamic beings and you can’t ruin anything with a thought. Set the intention to experience joy and to being receptive to evolving and moving forward.
Do you have someone in your life that gets under your skin? Do you feel that the more you try to avoid them, the more they come at you?
They say that the traits we dislike in others are inward characteristics of ourselves that we don’t want to acknowledge. While I believe this to be true, it can be challenging to discern which exact traits are something within ourselves when someone we dislike appears so different than us.
Finding and accepting these traits can take a lot of compassion-for ourselves and others. Sometimes you will need to protect yourself energetically before you can find out. Once you feel safe, it is important to maintain an attitude of compassion. After all, this person is reflecting you in some way. If they bother you so much they are clearly triggering something.
While the outward traits may be easy to spot, I find it is our previous life experiences that are difficult to recognize. For example, maybe this person is very lonely and reminds you of a time you felt isolated. While you are trying to avoid that experience again, this person senses you healed from it and wants to learn from you. The dynamic is very subtle and it will take strong intention and work on your part.
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Do you know the feeling when you are reaching your goal? Everything seems to flow smoothly and easily. The right people show up at the right time to assist you. Your schedule opens up in convenient ways. Money comes in from an unexpected source. Alternatively when you are trying too hard to make something happen walls keep coming up. Everything seems like a chore. It feels like bad luck but it is something more.
What is the difference between these two scenarios? I believe it has to do with your trust, belief and openness to natural flow.
When situations work out the way they were meant to, you really don’t need to do much-just follow the signposts neatly laid out for you. The more things work out for you, the more your energy becomes one of trust. This in turn increases the vibration of completing your goal.
On the other hand, if you start doubting or victimizing yourself you become magnetized to failure.
I suggest asking your Higher Power for help when you want something. Take the time to rest and contemplate and answers will come to you in down time. This is much more effective then being anxious/constantly checking email/”doing” just to feel useful. The more you trust the more likely you are to meet your goal efficiently. Remember to practice gratitude every step of the way.
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Sometimes it’s hard to know when to push ourselves and when to give ourselves a break. I know this is something I think about often.
If you are someone with an addictive personality pushing yourself can be related to self-punishment. If you tend to be an under achiever-going too easy on yourself can be connected to an issue around low self-esteem. One way to determine the right decision is to gauge how you generally feel after. Does taking that yoga class make you feel great after? Then it is something you should probably push yourself to do. Does spending time with a certain group of people leave you drained? That might be a situation where you take it easy on yourself.
When wavering on your next move-try not to spend too much time making a decision. Best to go with your instincts and don’t look back.