Over a decade ago I attended my first Reiki trade. I couldn’t wait to go home and tell my husband about the beautiful girl I met there. I found her intriguing on many levels and felt a strong attraction to her immediately. She later told me she felt the same way, although she had never been drawn to a woman before. We started a regular Reiki trade that lasted many years which was fruitful with psychic information and deep spiritual healing.
Sexual attraction in terms of energetic connections is not often discussed but everyone has experienced it. There are people we are supposed work with and one of the ways we end up getting there is by being drawn to them physically. We are dynamic beings constantly in a state of change-so this attraction is not meant to last. It’s just a sign to look at why this person is triggering us.
People form sexual attractions to others as an opportunity to work out their own issues. Often it is people they are not supposed to be drawn to: spouse of a good friend, teacher, therapist…I can go on. There is often a lot of guilt and shame attached, but it would be more beneficial instead to release the shame and examine your unresolved issue that is the cause.
These feelings can come up for many reasons including:
You have an issue that needs to be released.
You are subconsciously needing to heal karma from past lives with this person.
The person is triggering an unfulfilled need.
The first step in releasing the emotion is acknowledge it and ask for healing around the issue. You can do this through prayer, journaling, setting an intention or talking to a trusted friend. If you want to know why it is happening–decide you are going to find out and be open to receiving information.
I’d be happy to assist you through a clairvoyant reading via phone or email. My readings are completely confidential and given with the utmost compassion and respect for my clients.
Finally, remember that you are being drawn to this person for a reason and there is no reason to act on it–only acknowledge it is part of your healing path.
A simple step towards healthier living is creating vibrant thoughts and positive mental images. Successful manifesting comes from seeing results. Take small steps to build your confidence in manifesting. This confidence is essentially faith and trust in the process.
Start by creating your day. In the morning think about how you would like your day to go. Review your trigger points. For example: are you anxious about getting to work on time? Visualize yourself calmly and easily getting to work. Think of an affirmation: I will get to work easily. Try manifesting for every aspect of your day. It will keep you mindful and present in the moment. When you are getting dressed affirm you will look and feel great. As you eat-focus on your food and remind yourself that the food is nourishing you.
I also suggest larger affirmations for the day:
My happiness comes from the inside.
My life is easy and full of fun.
The little things make me happy.
I am full of energy.
I am magnetized to beautiful experiences.
You are getting assistance so remember to practice gratitude along the way.
As human beings we tend to match other’s moods and feelings. This is a natural way to connect with others. As compassionate people we see ourselves in others. The more we open– the more our faith grows that we are truly one.
Every behavior though, has a positive and negative attribute. Matching other’s moods can easily become unbalanced. Ideally, we are living in a balanced way and have the ability to at least acknowledge imbalance.
As in so many behavior patterns–meeting people where they are at is often a habit established in childhood. Like so many unhealthy behaviors we get something out of it. This is often hard to admit when your are struggling to break free of an unhealthy habit–but if you continue doing it: it is serving you in some way.
So how do you hold your vibration? How do stay true to yourself when you are so inclined to match the moods and feelings of others?
Here are a few suggestions:
Before you enter a situation that may be a trigger for you: see yourself functioning in calm and balanced way.
Practice affirmations regularly: “I hold my own vibration” or “I AM”–I particularly love this one because it says no matter what is happening around me, no matter what people throw at me– I AM (I stay true to myself, I stay healthy, I stay me!).
Breathe and live mindfully: as much as you can be mindful of the present moment and watch your breath. Even doing this a little bit will help.
Matching the vibration of others is actually a sly way of being self-critical. Embracing your Divine essence and staying true to yourself is the best way to Serve the world.
Many people are struggling right now to take their work to the next level. This may be a job promotion, attracting more clients/business, or shifting into a new field. For the most part, I’m finding that people are confident in their skills and want to make a move badly. Most often, they have done much spiritual work and are actively working on manifesting. So why aren’t they moving forward?
As I have discussed before, it is most often hidden beliefs that hold us back. These hidden beliefs form and perpetuate our story which ultimately create our reality.
In the past couple of weeks I have seen the barrier in moving forward towards abundance is fear of success. In our goal oriented society it is acceptable to talk about fear of failure. You don’t hear much about the fear of success. I’ll be more specific:
Doing all the spiritual work required to get to the next level can be tiring. Because one feels tired, they may feel deep down that they don’t have the energy to take on new responsibilities.
Wanting can be addictive. Once we get what we want we no longer can be distracted by trying to get there.
Some people have a buried resistance to shining their light and taking their place in the world.
I want to stress that these ways of thinking are hidden. You can discover your hidden beliefs by setting an intention, meditation or in a clairvoyant reading. I’d be happy to work with you in discovering your hidden beliefs either through phone or email. Contact me for more information.
Please remember that your journey may feel like it is going more slowly than you would like but it is all happening in a way that is Perfect.