If you are looking to make a change in your life: find a new relationship, better living situation, new job or anything you feel guided to shift– call in the support of others.
We are all here to help each other and I believe the most effective way to manifest change in our lives is to ask for assistance of others in a specific way.
As with any manifesting work it is essential to set the intention for the most benevolent outcome of all involved. For example: if you are applying for a job –start with asking for the greatest good for everyone even you don’t get the position. Assume that the right person will get the job and if you don’t get it there is a better one out there for you. This way you are asking in the highest way (which feels great!) and you are also not getting attached to the outcome.
Here are a few different ways to call in those helping people:
Be a helping person: The more of a helping person you are the more you will attract helping people in your own life. Help when you can in big and small ways without expectations.
Check out the Helpful People section in your home: Make sure this part of your home feels clean energetically. Clear out unnecessary objects and get it organized. Here is a great resource to find the helping people section in your home: www.pinkdwelling.com/the-placement-design-grid/
Ask Archangel Gabriel: Angelic help can be called in anytime and the potential is unlimited. I especially like working with Gabriel in connecting me with the right people. Say a prayer, ask for help, know that it will be taken care of and express gratitude. It is important that the channels are open and closed in a formal way. I like to do this through my imagination.
Contact me for more specific assistance in calling in those helpful people. I have achieved incredible results in my own life through manifesting. I love helping others do the same. I look forward to scheduling a reading with you!
I am endlessly fascinated by relationship dynamics.
Most interesting to me is how some people can trigger our emotions so deeply and others not at all. Someone can be an energy drain to your friend but you feel uplifted and energized by the same person. A casual remark from the wrong person can lay open old wounds. A relationship that is charged often needs no words–the wrong look can set us off.
Those who disturb us emotionally come and go and most importantly teach us what we need to heal and let go of.
Think of someone that triggers you. By trigger I mean annoys, exhausts or perhaps makes you feel irrationally angry. The characteristics that really get under your skin are a reflection of your inner self. The more you deny it the greater it is affecting you. You may not want to look at it–it is easier to feel a sense of otherness–but acknowledgement is the key to healing. You will find ways to let go and move on. You will vibrate higher and feel more free.
You can also learn about your personal growth and progress by reassessing your relationships. Likely there is someone that used to bother you and no longer does. This means part of you got the healing it needed.
Stay open to changing dynamics. As you heal that person may no longer drain or trigger you. It can be very life affirming to rekindle those relationships with a higher level of love and forgiveness. Or perhaps this person will never be in your life again but you gain a new perspective filled with understanding.
As an intuitive I am able to access behind the scenes information–why and how others are triggering you and provide you guidance on your unique path of healing. Contact me to schedule a session and we can dig in together in a fun and light-hearted way!
I also want to remind my inspiring clients and dear friends to keep doing this emotional work. I know some of you need to hear this right now. It can be challenging at times but the rewards are beyond measure.
This morning I had the honor of teaching a workshop on healing and intuition at a Zehut Women’s brunch in San Francisco.
Lara, Miryum and Me
In the Hebrew calendar we are currently in the month of Iyar which is commonly referred to as the month of natural healing. My workshop fits so well with the month of Iyar as natural healing and tapping into your intuition work together in a beautiful harmony.
At the event I taught the group grounding exercises we can all use for greater calm and clarity. We also went over the different ways to tap into our natural intuitive abilities. My favorite part was giving intuitive readings in the third part of the class. Every group is brought together for a reason so the information that came through for one person is beneficial to us all.
Many, many thanks to my dear friend and beloved Rebbetzin Miryum for coordinating this event. A special thanks to the beautiful and light filled Lara for opening your home and being such a generous person and hostess. Thanks to the whole group for showing up and being so open and present. It was greatly appreciated.
I will be teaching my next Intuitive Workshop in the Pleasant Hill area in May or June. Let me know if you would like to be added to the list of those interested.
Wishing everyone a month full of healing insights and natural healing,
How many of your actions, behaviors and thought patterns are born out of fear? Likely more than you realize.
While there are many parts of our lives where we feel abundant we often feel scarcity in others. Feelings of scarcity are related to fear, anxiety and lack of faith. Abundance feels like the universe is taking care of us and all will be well.
It is interesting to look at the parts of our lives that cause anxiety and the areas of faith and abundance.
You may feel that you will never have to worry about money but are concerned about your health. Perhaps you feel tremendous confidence about your life’s purpose but are extremely anxious about being late. Or you feel secure about having friendships of equanimity but panic when you are running low on groceries.
You most likely take for granted all the ways you feel you will be provided for. Yet scarcity is an underlying motivator for many of our feelings and fears.
Feelings of scarcity show up when there is an issue in our lives that is asking to be healed. It may seem small to you but there is always a larger pattern involved.
Take a moment to think about the areas in your life that trigger anxiety. If you are ready to acknowledge areas of fear and anxiety you are ready to begin the healing process.
The more faith you feel the more freedom you will experience. We are all here to grow. As we grow, as we experience more faith, the more light and healing we bring into the world.
Do you need support around feelings of fear and scarcity? Do you wish to learn how to bring more abundance into your life? Contact me to schedule a session. I look forward to hearing from you!
Included in every intuitive session I offer I am careful to open and close the channels in a formal way. This protects the boundaries of myself and my clients.
Lately I am noticing that I also need this ritual in every other area of my life as well.
Our thoughts are incredibly powerful and we all communicate constantly on an energetic level. Through intention and practice we can learn how to utilize this energy exchange in the highest way.
We are conditioned to always think of others. Clearly this is not always a good thing–I would say more often than not it weighs us down.
How much time do you spend thinking of others? It is interesting to watch one’s thoughts and notice.
Are your thoughts positive? If not, you will draw negativity to yourself.
Are you thinking about others to escape your reality? You will not move higher if you don’t accept your present situation.
Do your thoughts invade the privacy of another? They will sense that.
I believe the most important work happens on an energetic level and thinking of others can be highly constructive. That is, if it is done from your higher self with the intention of closing and opening the space between you both.
If you would like assistance with working with your intuition or any other areas of your life contact me to schedule a session.
This morning I received a lovely gift in the form of a Reiki session from my dear friend and Reiki student Amy.
The session was very intense and deeply healing. I was so proud that one of my students was able to hold such a powerful space, act so professionally and handle the flow of energy in such a heart-centered, balanced way.
As gratifying as it felt to have been part of her growth, even more precious to me was my ability to let go during the exchange. As someone that does therapeutic work with others regularly, it can be hard for me to be open. I find myself in the giver role or not be in the present moment.
There is a variety of reasons for this, but as I slowly learn how to be better at receiving I have realized the largest barrier: my ego. I had thought it was because I was identifying myself as the caretaker. In reality, I had many preconceived notions that were getting in the way of my growth. I was missing out on learning opportunities because the experiences were not matching my expectations.
At one point during the session with Amy I wanted to share hand position that may be easier. I quickly realized that it was happening in a perfect way and I needed to absorb and dive into just being. Thank you my friend, student and now teacher.
We could all use help and support from others-as much as we sometimes think we can take care of ourselves completely. My phone and email readings are a safe, completely confidential space for you to get the information you need at that moment to grow, heal and release.
Contact me to schedule a session. I’d love to hear from you!
If you are on this earth you have a purpose and that purpose is to be you. Becoming more you is not self-indulgent navel gazing. When you live your authentic life you help heal the world. There is tremendous beauty and personal power that comes along when you decide to be more you. It may seem overwhelming, but once you make the decision you will feel a sweet release. The more you are you, the less you have to worry and the healthier you will be in every way. The result is freedom.
Here is a guide to becoming more you:
Celebrate your birthday. As we get older we tend to celebrate our birthdays less and less. I feel the longer we are here the more we should mark the occasion! Set the intention to have a joyful day. Plan it in advance if you need to. Invite your friends and allow them to treat you. Have as much fun as possible!
Surround yourself with supportive people. Not everyone in our life is going to “get” us. Some of my oldest and dearest friends have no idea of what I do, but they love and support me unconditionally. They don’t have to understand you–but they do need to support you.
Come out, come out whoever you are! Whoever it is you feel you need to be–whatever it is you need to do–do it now! You are feeling that need for a reason and it should be respected. Listen to that inner voice.
Be you as much as possible. There are times we can’t fully be ourselves for various reasons. Lessen those times. Examine if you really need to hide who you are in certain situations. Likely there are times that you could be more you but think you won’t be accepted. You may be surprised. The less you compartmentalize the better.
Speak your truth. Be authentic.
Don’t try to meet people where they are. This is a common trait especially for healers– we often automatically tune in and meet people’s needs. Don’t meet people where you think they are. Let go and let the situation flow organically.
Find quiet moments. It is through quiet reflection and living in the moment we find who we really are.
The weather here in Northern California has been very warm this month but hints of autumn have been in the cool breezes. Our tomato plants have been fading while my neighbor’s persimmon trees are just coming into bloom.
There is something mystical about the changing of the season and this season in particular. The way the new season is slowly changing and moving back and forth brings to mind the way so many are healing and learning right now. There have been some big shifts and dramatic life events in the past year. You have cleared so much, especially around personal power and self-worth. You are now learning to embrace your true self. There is a new sense of excitement and direction coupled with fleeting fear and anxiety.
Old issues and experiences that you had thought were let go of long ago are reappearing again. Your dreams have been vivid and felt so real at times.
There are many great changes to come before things feel more settled, but please know part of this journey is accepting change. At times it feels as if nothing is happening-but at those times is when all your deep inner work is manifesting. You may feel a little more tired, deep breathing and relaxation will alleviate exhaustion. As will doing the things you love.
This is a time to be open, yet closed. Ground yourself daily. Practice lots of self-care. Put striving on hold and enjoy living. Remember joy! Speak the word joy! Yell the word joy!
Creating the life you want should be fun and effortless. If it feels like you are pushing to make things work, likely you are trying too hard.
Best to loosen your grip and have some fun! Manifesting is a powerful tool, always at your disposal, to bring you closer to the life you want to live. Manifesting works best when done with faith, fun and lightness. In other words, don’t be hard on yourself and don’t be attached to the outcome.
Creating images in your mind is a simple way to manifest that is also a lot of fun. For some of us, tapping into an image instead of words can be a lot less loaded. Likely because negative self-talk has no chance of taking over.
Here is how:
Think of something you want.
Think of a positive image that relates to your goal.
Think of this image whenever you need a boost.
Here are a few examples:
If you are looking to lose weight: picture the scale with your goal number.
If you are looking to be more financially abundant: envision yourself surrounded by money. You can also see you and your loved ones under a money tree.
To connect more deeply with a loved one: see yourself and loved one surrounded in pink or green (both related to heart chakra).
If you have a deadline you would like to reach: picture the date surrounded by light.
You may borrow and image from someone else or use your own. It really doesn’t matter as long as it is associated with your goal.
The Angels are telling me again to relay to you: stop being so hard on yourself.