Change Your Life With Helping People

If you are looking to make a change in your life: find a new relationship, better living situation, new job or anything you feel guided to shift– call in the support of others. IMG_4182

We are all here to help each other and I believe the most effective way to manifest change in our lives is to ask for assistance of others in a specific way.

As with any manifesting work it is essential to set the intention for the most benevolent outcome of all involved. For example: if you are applying for a job –start with asking for the greatest good for everyone even you don’t get the position. Assume that the right person will get the job and if you don’t get it there is a better one out there for you. This way you are asking in the highest way (which feels great!) and you are also not getting attached to the outcome.

Here are a few different ways to call in those helping people:

  • Be a helping person:  The more of a helping person you are the more you will attract helping people in your own life. Help when you can in big and small ways without expectations.
  • Check out the Helpful People section in your home:  Make sure this part of your home feels clean energetically. Clear out unnecessary objects and get it organized. Here is a great resource to find the helping people section in your home: www.pinkdwelling.com/the-placement-design-grid/
  • Ask Archangel Gabriel: Angelic help can be called in anytime and the potential is unlimited. I especially like working with Gabriel in connecting me with the right people. Say a prayer, ask for help, know that it will be taken care of and express gratitude. It is important that the channels are open and closed in a formal way. I like to do this through my imagination.
  • Contact me for more specific assistance in calling in those helpful people. I have achieved incredible results in my own life through manifesting. I love helping others do the same. I look forward to scheduling a reading with you!

In Light,

Julie

 

Who Is Your Emotional Trigger?

I am endlessly fascinated by relationship dynamics. IMG_3180

Most interesting to me is how some people can trigger our emotions so deeply and others not at all. Someone can be an energy drain to your friend but you feel uplifted and energized by the same person. A casual remark from the wrong person can lay open old wounds. A relationship that is charged often needs no words–the wrong look can set us off.

Those who disturb us emotionally come and go and most importantly teach us what we need to heal and let go of.

Think of someone that triggers you. By trigger I mean annoys, exhausts or perhaps makes you feel irrationally angry. The characteristics that really get under your skin are a reflection of your inner self. The more you deny it the greater it is affecting you. You may not want to look at it–it is easier to feel a sense of otherness–but acknowledgement is the key to healing. You will find ways to let go and move on. You will vibrate higher and feel more free.

You can also learn about your personal growth and progress by reassessing your relationships. Likely there is someone that used to bother you and no longer does. This means part of you got the healing it needed.

Stay open to changing dynamics. As you heal that person may no longer drain or trigger you. It can be very life affirming to rekindle those relationships with a higher level of love and forgiveness. Or perhaps this person will never be in your life again but you gain a new perspective filled with understanding.

As an intuitive I am able to access behind the scenes information–why and how others are triggering you and provide you guidance on your unique path of healing. Contact me to schedule a session and we can dig in together in a fun and light-hearted way!

I also want to remind my inspiring clients and dear friends to keep doing this emotional work. I know some of you need to hear this right now. It can be challenging at times but the rewards are beyond measure.

Sending you blessings of freedom,

Julie

Intuition and Natural Healing

This morning I had the honor of teaching a workshop on healing and intuition at a Zehut Women’s brunch in San Francisco.

Lara, Miryum and Me

Lara, Miryum and Me

In the Hebrew calendar we are currently in the month of Iyar which is commonly referred to as the month of natural healing. My workshop fits so well with the month of Iyar as natural healing and tapping into your intuition work together  in a beautiful harmony.

At the event I taught the group grounding exercises we can all use for greater calm and clarity. We also went over the different ways to tap into our natural intuitive abilities. My favorite part was giving intuitive readings in the third part of the class. Every group is brought together for a reason so the information that came through for one person is beneficial to us all.

Many, many thanks to my dear friend and beloved Rebbetzin Miryum for coordinating this event. A special thanks to the beautiful and light filled Lara for opening your home and being such a generous person and hostess. Thanks to the whole group for showing up and being so open and present. It was greatly appreciated.

I will be teaching my next Intuitive Workshop in the Pleasant Hill area in May or June. Let me know if you would like to be added to the list of those interested.

Wishing everyone a month full of healing insights and natural healing,

Julie

Fear, Anxiety, Faith and Freedom

How many of your actions, behaviors and thought patterns are born out of fear? Likely more than you realize.IMG_3928

While there are many parts of our lives where we feel abundant we often feel scarcity in others. Feelings of scarcity are related to fear, anxiety and lack of faith. Abundance feels like the universe is taking care of us and all will be well.

It is interesting to look at the parts of our lives that cause anxiety and the areas of faith and abundance.

You may feel that you will never have to worry about money but are concerned about your health. Perhaps you feel tremendous confidence about your life’s purpose but are extremely anxious about being late. Or you feel secure about having friendships of equanimity but panic when you are running low on groceries.

You most likely take for granted all the ways you feel you will be provided for. Yet scarcity is an underlying motivator for many of our feelings and fears.

Feelings of scarcity show up when there is an issue in our lives that is asking to be healed. It may seem small to you but there is always a larger pattern involved.

Take a moment to think about the areas in your life that trigger anxiety. If you are ready to acknowledge areas of fear and anxiety you are ready to begin the healing process.

The more faith you feel the more freedom you will experience. We are all here to grow. As we grow, as we experience more faith, the more light and healing we bring into the world.

Do you need support around feelings of fear and scarcity? Do you wish to learn how to bring more abundance into your life? Contact me to schedule a session. I look forward to hearing from you!

In Light-Julie

Interview with Elisa Macomber: Placement Designer, Feng Shui Expert, Intuitive

I have benefited greatly and continue to experience big energetic shifts from Elisa’s straightforward, practical advice. Elisa also has a wonderful sense of humor, a great sense of style Elisa Picand is an extremely generous and loving human being.

It is with great joy I share my interview with her:

  • Tell me a little about your work in placement design/feng shui.

Feng shui has been a part of my life for years and I just recently coined the term “placement design” for a more modern approach, along with interior decorating, symbolism, and color theory thrown in the mix. Feng shui and placement design are both all about the flow of energy in a home essentially.

  • I have seen many versions of the bagua map. Which one do you recommend?

I recommend the western version, which is exactly like the one shown on my website (http://pinkdwelling.com/the-placement-design-grid/). It is easy to follow, and we all do not have the perfectly shaped room or house! It is not practical or aesthetically pleasing for anyone to have furniture at an awkward angle based on a certain compass direction.

  • At the intuitive circle I recently hosted there were many questions about space clearing. Can you give us a few suggestions on clearing the energy in our homes?

I suggest you do space clearing on a day when no one is home, turn off the computers, phones and televisions, and try to be barefoot for the space clearing process. The purpose of this is to get attuned to your house’s energies and what it needs. It is hard to do so when we are easily distracted by all the technology at our fingertips, and it takes discipline to stay focused on the space clearing. I always have a bell, incense, a candle, and prayers/intentions written down for each time I space clear my home. It is also important to do space clearing when you move into a new place before you do anything to clear out the previous occupants’ energies.

  • How do you incorporate Angels in your work?

I often call upon Archangels Michael and Jophiel, to work with me as I do space clearing or placement design, because they will guide you to an area of a house, or help you to sense what could be out of balance. I simply ask them to come forth and let them know they are welcome in my place. Listen to your intuition and where you are being guided. Most of the time it will surprise you!

  • What colors do you associate with energetic protection?

White is a great color to have. I burn white candles when space clearing for purity.

  • What changes can a person make in their home to attract more abundance?

It’s all about going bigger. Often “little” items – knick knacks or furniture that look “thin” are commonly visible in people’s homes. You want to convey a feeling of fullness and abundance, and surrounding yourself with bigger items will do so. If you have a choice between a tiny flower pot versus a lush, full tropical plant, which do you think is the better choice for abundance?  If it’s not possible to get bigger decor items, then put away the little items to make everything else seem….bigger!

Another way to attract abundance is to surround yourself with images and symbols of abundance. Everyone’s idea of abundance is different, but the important thing to remember is to not surround yourself with scarcity items, such as a “tiny tim” plant, or old, worn furniture. It only reinforces the feeling of not having enough.

  • Some of my clients are dealing with blocks to manifesting. How can placement design assist them?

Color will go a long way in helping them get past those blockages and make them feel more confident and encourage them to move forward. Red, orange and yellow are the most powerful colors in breaking through. The red, orange, and yellow are related to our lower chakras, which is all about survival, creation, and confidence. It can be overwhelming as well, so start with small amounts. Eat foods in those colors daily, and wear socks and underwear in those colors. No one but you has to know! Jewelry, a wallet, a handbag, and nail polish all add those pops of color to change your mindset. Even writing with a red pen works too. I hated orange and yellow for YEARS until I saw a shade of orange that grabbed my eye and slowly, I learned to love it. I recommend starting with these colors personally to get used to them if you are not comfortable changing or adding more color to your decor right away.

Another factor to keep in mind about manifesting something in your life is that blockages will show up in the home symbolically. You will be surprised at how symbolic clutter, certain collections, or artwork can be a major blockage unconsciously to the client. I have had clients who wanted to find someone special in their lives with no such luck and what would I see in their relationship areas? Items grouped in 3s, and not 2s. Once we took away the “extra” item, their love lives would take off in the direction they wanted!

  • How do you coach couples where one is resistant to purging?

I see it too often when one person wants to throw out something and the other doesn’t. It does take compromise! You have to find a common ground – something you both agree on getting rid of. It starts the ball rolling. I recommend to a couple to put away something one refuses to throw out in a box in a closet for a minimum of 2 or 3 months and then revisit the box after that to see if they still want it.

  • What is the one thing someone can do in their home right now to improve the energy?

Space clear and declutter the least favorite room of your house right now, as that room or space holds the most potential for positive change in your life. If you have been neglecting a certain room for a while, take care of it first before making changes anywhere else in the house. You will feel lighter and better once you do, and your house will too!

Elisa Macomber is based out of Santa Fe, New Mexico and works with clients throughout the USA and abroad.

For more information please visit www.pinkdwelling.com

On Not Thinking of Others

Included in every intuitive session I offer I am careful to open and close the channels in a formal way. This protects the boundaries of myself and my clients.IMG_3929

Lately I am noticing that I also need this ritual in every other area of my life as well.

Our thoughts are incredibly powerful and we all communicate constantly on an energetic level. Through intention and practice we can learn how to utilize this energy exchange in the highest way.

We are conditioned to always think of others. Clearly this is not always a good thing–I would say more often than not it weighs us down.

How much time do you spend thinking of others?  It is interesting to watch one’s thoughts and notice.

  • Are your thoughts positive? If not, you will draw negativity to yourself.
  • Are you thinking about others to escape your reality? You will not move higher if you don’t accept your present situation.
  • Do your thoughts invade the privacy of another? They will sense that.

I believe the most important work happens on an energetic level and thinking of others can be highly constructive. That is, if it is done from your higher self with the intention of closing and opening the space between you both.

If you would like assistance with working with your intuition or any other areas of your life contact me to schedule a session.

Best wishes-Julie

Going Higher Through Intention

Often the most effective solutions in life are the simplest. This can be difficult to accept because a lot of us are programmed to believe we must work hard to achieve.IMG_2953

Making a change can be as easy as setting an intention.

Are you struggling with an issue in your life? Is there something you would like to change? Set the intention to go higher.

“I intend to rise above” is a simple, yet powerfully transforming affirmation.

A lot of my clients are currently working on issues around ego. It seems to be the theme these days. If you have an ego related issue–affirm to yourself you will rise above it. Even if the intention does not feel strong, you will begin to shift your thinking.

The behaviors we don’t rise above keep us working in the lower energies. Even more so-they keep us separate from others when we are all connected. Examples of lower energies are fear, jealously, and holding anger.

Is there someone you are in conflict with? Send them light. You called them here so your can work out and heal an issue of your own. Intend to rise above the situation. You will feel better and the charge between you will begin to decrease.

Many blessings to you in healing with intention!–Julie

A message to my phone reading clients: As of February 1st– I am only offering 40 minute sessions and the fee is $80. They seem just right for the needs of my clients. Contact me if you are ready to book your next reading. I look forward to hearing from you!

 

Being Open To Receive

This morning I received a lovely gift in the form of a Reiki session from my dear friend and Reiki student Amy.IMG_3583

The session was very intense and deeply healing. I was so proud that one of my students was able to hold such a powerful space, act so professionally and handle the flow of energy in such a heart-centered, balanced way.

As gratifying as it felt to have been part of her growth, even more precious to me was my ability to let go during the exchange. As someone that does therapeutic work with others regularly, it can be hard for me to be open. I find myself in the giver role or not be in the present moment.

There is a variety of reasons for this, but as I slowly learn how to be better at receiving I have realized the largest barrier: my ego. I had thought it was because I was identifying myself as the caretaker. In reality, I had many preconceived notions that were getting in the way of my growth. I was missing out on learning opportunities because the experiences were not matching my expectations.

At one point during the session with Amy I wanted to share hand position that may be easier. I quickly realized that it was happening in a perfect way and I needed to absorb and dive into just being. Thank you my friend, student and now teacher.

Thanks Amy!

Thanks Amy!

We could all use help and support from others-as much as we sometimes think we can take care of ourselves completely. My phone and email readings are a safe, completely confidential space for you to get the information you need at that moment to grow, heal and release.

Contact me to schedule a session. I’d love to hear from you!

Warm wishes-Julie

 

Be More You

If you are on this earth you have a purpose and that purpose is to be you. Becoming more you is not self-indulgent navel gazing. When you live your authentic life you help heal the IMG_3487world. There is tremendous beauty and personal power that comes along when you decide to be more you. It may seem overwhelming, but once you make the decision you will feel a sweet release. The more you are you, the less you have to worry and the healthier you will be in every way. The result is freedom.

Here is a guide to becoming more you:

  • Celebrate your birthday. As we get older we tend to celebrate our birthdays less and less. I feel the longer we are here the more we should mark the occasion! Set the intention to have a joyful day. Plan it in advance if you need to. Invite your friends and allow them to treat you. Have as much fun as possible!
  • Surround yourself with supportive people. Not everyone in our life is going to “get” us. Some of my oldest and dearest friends have no idea of what I do, but they love and support me unconditionally. They don’t have to understand you–but they do need to support you.
  • Come out, come out whoever you are! Whoever it is you feel you need to be–whatever it is you need to do–do it now! You are feeling that need for a reason and it should be respected. Listen to that inner voice.
  • Be you as much as possible. There are times we can’t fully be ourselves for various reasons. Lessen those times. Examine if you really need to hide who you are in certain situations. Likely there are times that you could be more you but think you won’t be accepted. You may be surprised. The less you compartmentalize the better.
  • Speak your truth. Be authentic. 
  • Don’t try to meet people where they are. This is a common trait especially for healers– we often automatically tune in and meet people’s needs. Don’t meet people where you think they are. Let go and let the situation flow organically.
  • Find quiet moments. It is through quiet reflection and living in the moment we find who we really are.
Dancing and celebrating my 40th birthday

Dancing and celebrating my 40th birthday

Here’s to living authentically! In Light-Julie

A New Season

The weather here in Northern California has been very warm this month but hints of autumn have been in the cool breezes. Our tomato plants have been fading while my neighbor’s persimmon trees are just coming into bloom.

There is something mystical about the changing of the season and this season in particular. The way the new season is slowly changing and moving back and forth brings to mind the way so many are healing and learning right now. There have been some big shifts and dramatic life events in the past year. You have cleared so much, especially around personal power and self-worth. You are now learning to embrace your true self. There is a new sense of excitement and direction coupled with fleeting fear and anxiety.

Old issues and experiences that you had thought were let go of long ago are reappearing again. Your dreams have been vivid and felt so real at times.

There are many great changes to come before things feel more settled, but please know part of this journey is accepting change. At times it feels as if nothing is happening-but at those times is when all your deep inner work is manifesting. You may feel a little more tired, deep breathing and relaxation will alleviate exhaustion. As will doing the things you love.

This is a time to be open, yet closed. Ground yourself daily. Practice lots of self-care. Put striving on hold and enjoy living. Remember joy! Speak the word joy! Yell the word joy!

Many, many blessings-Julie